“When conflicts occur, often as a result of miscommunication, partners are likely to blame each other rather than to think of the conflict as a problem that can be solved. As difficulties arise and hostilities and misunderstandings proliferate, partners lose sight of the positive things their mate provides and represents—somebody to support them, to enhance their experiences, to share in building a family. Ultimately they may doubt the relationship itself and so foreclose on the opportunity to unravel the knots that twist their understandings."
Love Is Never Enough
─ Aaron Beck
─ Translated by Yi-Chien, Chen
Keywords: relationship, psychology, intimacy, conflicts, support, couples, communication
關鍵字：衝突, 責備, 怪罪, 爭吵, 是非對錯, 錯誤的溝通, 經營, 價值, 意義, 眼光